By the way, the right reaction to Berit's whininess this morning would have been to stop and breathe and then tell her that it frustrates me that she says she doesn't want to go camping, since we've been excited about it all week long, and I've been working hard this morning to make it happen, and the last time we went she seemed to like it. So can you help me understand why you don't want to go, Berit?

And then I would have found out that she was scared of the Bears.